{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Soozhee","provider_url":"https:\/\/soozhee.com\/ja","author_name":"Soozhee Pearce","author_url":"https:\/\/soozhee.com\/ja\/author\/soozhee\/","title":"Friend or Secret Angel - Soozhee","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"kCoj9EQfe8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/soozhee.com\/ja\/friend-or-secret-angel\/\">Friend or Secret Angel<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/soozhee.com\/ja\/friend-or-secret-angel\/embed\/#?secret=kCoj9EQfe8\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Friend or Secret Angel&#8221; &#8212; Soozhee\" data-secret=\"kCoj9EQfe8\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n<\/script>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/soozhee.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/Friend-or-Secret-Angel-article-1.webp","thumbnail_width":1024,"thumbnail_height":1024,"description":"Friend or Secret Angel? The Twist of Friendship Wanting to be a good friend is noble. But the application of friendship has become twisted. Too often it becomes permission \u2014 permission for someone to keep doing whatever they want, while you nod, smile, and agree: \u201cyou\u2019re right, you\u2019re great.\u201d Meanwhile, the truth may be this: they\u2019re being hurtful, their actions are leading everyone off a cliff, and their unaddressed trauma patterns are contaminating everything around them. Instead of taking responsibility, they rely on you to \u201cstick around,\u201d put up with it, make excuses on their behalf, and even do their clean-up work for them. You drain your own limited time [&hellip;]"}